Oh, Brother Where Art Thou...

Saturday, May 21, 2005

I am the oldest of four children. I love my siblings more than anything in the world. I am the closest to my youngest brother. I adore him. He is one of my best friends. He has a heart of gold.

For most of high school and college he had a girlfriend. They were inseparable. For a time they were even engaged. When he moved back to Michigan, he decided that it was better that they went their separate ways. To my surprise they stayed really good friends. Even after she got married shortly after their breakup.

About a month ago the ex found a lump. It was removed and unfortunately is/was cancerous. She will be going through chemo and the barrage of other treatments. My brother has decided to drive all the way to Washington to see her. I told you a heart of gold, but it gets even better.

My brother understands perfectly that he can do little to help her situation. He can be there as a friend and care for her. Amazing. He also understands actions speak louder than words. So, last Saturday he shaved his head.

Unconditionally loving someone enough to shave your head, there's something to think about.